Sunday, 1 February 2026

Logs to burn! Logs to burn!

 

Logs to burn! Logs to burn!
Logs to save the coal a turn!
Here's a word to make you wise
When you hear the woodman's cries.

Beechwood fire burn bright and clear;
Hornbeam blazes too,
If logs are kept a year
And seasoned through and through.

Oak logs will warm you well
If they're old and dry,
Larch logs of pinewood smell
But the sparks will fly.

Pine is good and so is yew
For warmth through winter days
But poplar and willow, too
Take long to dry and blaze.

Birch logs will burn too fast,
Alder scarce at all.
Chestnut logs are good to last
If cut in the fall.

Holly logs will burn like wax,
You should burn them green,
Elm logs like smoldering flax,
No flame is seen.

Pear logs and apple logs,
They will scent your room.
Cherry logs across the dogs
Smell like flowers in bloom.

But ash logs, all smooth and grey,
Burn them green or old,
Buy up all that come your way,
They're worth their weight in gold.

I've been relaxing in front of this log fire while staying at a friend's. It makes the room feel so cosy and warms it up in no time. 

I can light a fire - no problem. My mum taught me. We always had a fire when I was young. At first an open one, burning coal, the only source of heat in the house before central heating. The importance of the fire, and the skill of lighting it and keep it going, was therefore something hammered home by my parents. In a later house we had a stove, burning coke, with a back boiler that heated the water and later the central heating. Woe betide if you let the fire go out!

There were no fire lighters needed in those days. My mum taught me to take a sheet of the Telegraph and Argus newspaper (broadsheet always better of course than tabloid for the purposes of fire-lighting), fold it corner-wise, then roll it up tight, into a long sausage. With flick of the wrist the sausage is then tied and the ends tucked in, to make it compact. A few of these are laid in the grate, then small kindling sticks arranged above and around them, leaving plenty of space for the air the get through. Light the paper, and once the kindling has caught, more sticks can be delicately added, if required. At the right moment (knowing when is an instinctual thing) small pieces of coal can be added and gradually more as the fire builds. 

To aid the 'drawing' of the fire, a small shovel (with a wooden handle!) is balanced in front of the fire and another sheet of newspaper place against it, covering the whole grate. Immediately the fire starts to draw and eventually to roar. Skill is needed to determine how long to wait so that the fire in the grate is properly burning, (but without the 'drawing' sheet bursting into flames!)

Another helpful trick, taught to me by my Nanna, is to throw a handful of sugar on to the fire (but this is not to be advised unless desperate).Nanna also had an open fire and I would sit on her knee some afternoons just watching the fire burn. She would say, "Oh look, there's a dog's head, " or "Can you see that witch's face?", then invite me to stare into the coals and tell her what I saw.

Sometimes the back boiler at home would heat the water in the upstairs tank so much that it would start to boil and emit a thunderous roar. We all jumped up and rushed to turn on the taps until it calmed down and the roaring stopped. All this a long way now from this warm, peaceful, soporific North Yorkshire living room.

Writing prompt:

  •  Write about a skill learnt from a member of your family. 
  •  What do you remember about how your home was heated when you were a child? Write about it.
  • Take a phrase from the poem (eg. 'sparks will fly', 'smell like flowers in bloom', 'worth their weight in gold') and use it as a prompt for further writing. 

  

 

 


Saturday, 31 January 2026

Yellow

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 YELLOW
Some people walk into your life with a light
that can only be described as yellow
infusing the very air around with the silent sound of
this will be okay
nothing hard can stay
we will find a way
together
we can reach calmer weather
these people, your yellows
are sunny, endlessly funny
they are warm and safe
a comforting place
they’re a light things can grow in
their heart they wholly throw in
they are cheerleaders for your win
and if you have a yellow in this life
keep them bright
they thrive on giving out light
but they fight
their own dark too
they need a colour beside them
to push on through
and I think they found a fellow
yellow in you. 
 
Donna Ashworth 
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I had the privilege yesterday of attending the funeral of Rebecca Nahapiet. The church was packed with those who had known and loved her for the special, beautiful, joyful person she was. At age 40 she died too young and her passing will have left a hole in many people's lives. 

A teacher once said of her, “You would have to be remarkably perverse to be miserable with your own problems when she is cheerful with hers.” 

Donna Ashworth's touching poem (above) was read out at Rebecca's funeral. She was a 'yellow' for me and for many.  

Writing prompts:

  •  Write about a 'yellow' in your life. 
  •  Do you think you are a 'yellow' for anyone else? Write about how you 'give out light'.
  •  Set a timer and write about 'fighting your own dark'.

Tuesday, 27 January 2026

Carry Pain Like a Tree Does

 

"I want to carry pain like a tree does.

Let the rings of my experience push me to

grow wider and stronger.

I never want to forget each ring that holds

everything I've witnessed, loved and lost,

But I want to keep expanding." 

from 'Tree Rings' by Mari Andrew 

 

I came across this tree stump in the churchyard at Coley, Halifax. I'm not sure what kind it is (sycamore?), or when it was chopped down, but it tells a story, as all trees do. 

Writing prompt:

  •   What's your story? Think of a time when you have experienced pain or loss. Write about how that experience helped you to expand and grow wider and stronger. 


 

Thursday, 1 January 2026

Ring Out the Old, Ring In the New

 

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 In Memoriam, [Ring out, wild bells]

Alfred, Lord Tennyson 1809 –1892

Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky,
   The flying cloud, the frosty light:
   The year is dying in the night;
Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.

Ring out the old, ring in the new,
   Ring, happy bells, across the snow:
   The year is going, let him go;
Ring out the false, ring in the true.

Ring out the grief that saps the mind
   For those that here we see no more;
   Ring out the feud of rich and poor,
Ring in redress to all mankind.

Ring out a slowly dying cause,
   And ancient forms of party strife;
   Ring in the nobler modes of life,
With sweeter manners, purer laws.

Ring out the want, the care, the sin,
   The faithless coldness of the times;
   Ring out, ring out my mournful rhymes
But ring the fuller minstrel in.

Ring out false pride in place and blood,
   The civic slander and the spite;
   Ring in the love of truth and right,
Ring in the common love of good.

Ring out old shapes of foul disease;
   Ring out the narrowing lust of gold;
   Ring out the thousand wars of old,
Ring in the thousand years of peace.

Ring in the valiant man and free,
   The larger heart, the kindlier hand;
   Ring out the darkness of the land,
Ring in the Christ that is to be.

This poem is in the public domain.

The new year, 2026, is here, presenting new opportunities and a fresh start. Some people will be glad to see the back of 2025, especially if it's been a time of illness, hardship  or grief. Whatever you are leaving behind, I hope this new year sees you fulfilling your hopes and dreams.

As we turn to a fresh page, try to make your writing habit a daily one. Even if you set aside only a few minutes each day you will reap the benefits and see an improvement in your mental health. Clink here to find out why.

Writing prompts:

  • Whether or not the last line of 'In Memoriam' means anything to you, I'm sure you can agree with Tennyson's overall sentiment in this poem. Write about what you will ring out that is 'false' and ring in that is 'true'.
  • Have you experienced 'grief that saps the mind' in 2025? Set a timer and write about the experience for six minutes.
  • Do you think it is possible to 'ring out the thousand wars of old'? Write about how the world could ring in peace.
  • Make two lists - one of all you want to ring out and another of all you want to ring in. If you keep the lists, perhaps you could reflect on them at this time in 2027.
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Saturday, 20 December 2025

Grief and Christmas

 

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I will light candles this Christmas 

by Howard Thurman

I will light Candles this Christmas,
Candles of joy despite all the sadness,
Candles of hope where despair keeps watch,
Candles of courage for fears ever present,
Candles of peace for tempest-tossed days,
Candles of grace to ease heavy burdens,
Candles of love to inspire all my living,
Candles that will burn all year long.

 

This week I have heard of the deaths of two friends. Their grieving families will find Christmas hard without their loved one.

I've also chatted with another friend whose husband died a while ago and who is going away on retreat at Christmas to find some peace, stillness and time for contemplation in her grief. The festivities, for her, are inappropriate.

Let's spare a thought for all those who are grieving and finding this festive period difficult. I send my love to anyone affected and will light a candle to remember those dear friends who have gone.

Writing prompts:

  • Who will you light  candle for this Christmas? Set a timer and write about that person, if you can, for six minutes. 
  • If you are grieving at the moment for someone you love who has gone, write about how it feels. Again set a timer for six minutes.  

Sunday, 30 November 2025

Advent

 

 

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The season of Advent is here. I will light my Advent candle tomorrow, and open the first door on my Advent calendar. My search for one that had anything to do with Christmas ended at Liverpool's Anglican Cathedral where I found a calendar devoid of chocolates, that simply told the Christmas story.

'Advent' seems to come earlier each year. It's somewhat depressing to see the Hallowen'en paraphernalia in shops immediately replaced by Christmas stock. It makes one wonder what it's all about. 

Perhaps I'm feeling nostalgic, or looking at things through rose coloured glasses, but Christmas, and the lead up to it, used to be so simple and therefore, I think, more special. 

There would be a party at junior school, with jelly and ice-cream, musical chairs and a visit from Santa (one of the teachers dressed up in a not-very-convincing disguise) handing out selection boxes wrapped in coloured crepe paper. 

A trip to Santa's grotto at Busby's department store in Bradford was always a treat. 

Letters would be written, requesting a new doll, or clockwork train set, then burnt on the open fire to travel up the chimney and on to the North Pole. 

For weeks we would rehearse the Sunday School Christmas panto, maybe playing a rat or a mouse in Cinderella, or as we got older being promoted to 'the chorus'. 

We'd go door to door singing Christmas carols, and there always seemed to be thick snow.

Christmas morning was magical, waking up in the cold (no central heating) and peering through the dark to find a pillow case, bulging with gifts, at the end of the bed.

Click here to read John Betjeman's poem 'Advent'. 

Click here to read one of my favourite stories, 'The gift of the Magi'. 

However you spend your Advent, I hope it is one filled with simple pleasures and love. Please share your Advent thoughts in the comments box.

Writing prompts:

  • What are your childhood memories of the time leading up to Christmas? 
  • Write a letter to Santa. You can request anything you like in your list!
  • Does all the Christmas hullabaloo start to early in your opinion, or are you happy to see inflatable snowmen and Father Christmases in your neighbours' gardens in October? 


 

Friday, 7 November 2025

Survey - Using the Well Words Blog

 

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