Carers

 

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"There are only four kinds of people in the world: those who have been caregivers, those who are currently caregivers, those who will be caregivers and those who will need caregivers."

(Rosalynn Carter)

Former First Lady Rosalynn Carter is an interesting woman. Born in 1927 (the same year as my mum), she's been married to former US president Jimmy Carter for almost 75 years. Click on the link above to find out about her. Click here to read about the Rosalynn Carter Institute for Caregivers.

According to her quote (above) I think I fall into the first and last category, but I know many people who are currently caregivers. We've come to learn a little more during this past pandemic year about these dedicated, unsung heroes, but the facts and figures about caring in the UK remain shocking, not least that, according to Carers UK, carers save the economy £132 billion a year. 

Whatever kind of caring it is, whether for someone who is ill, disabled or elderly, there's no doubt it's hard work, requiring dedication and time, and can result in the carer's own mental health suffering. 

Writing prompts:

• According to Rosalynn Carter's definition, which kind of person are you? Write about that role (those roles) for a few minutes.
• Make a list of all the caring responsibilities you have at the moment and how they affect you physically and mentally. 
• Think of someone who, in the past, has cared for you. Write about that person and experience. Set a timer for seven minutes so you know when to stop.
• Write about a time (real or imaginary) when you will become a caregiver.
• Imagine a time in the future when you may need someone to care for you. Write about how that might be.